
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Thursday, December 10, 2009
When a Door Closes a Window Opens
On another note I read Malcom Gladwell’s Outliers over the Thanksgiving break.

10,000 Hours
I don’t know about you but I have never done anything in my life for that long, but it is definitely a goal worth shooting for
More to come once I get settled here, and hopefully find a place to live
Sunday, November 22, 2009
"Now I Can Die in Peace"

I also just went back and added pics to the race for the cure post. As and editors note i would say i sound a little snobbish in that one when I talk about raising money. It shouldn't matter who raised it just that it was raised. Since i don't want this to be a revisionist history I am going to leave it in there. I am still waiting on the pic's from Phish, They should be good. I am excited for them. More to come...
Monday, November 2, 2009
Festival 8






Thursday, October 29, 2009
Been doing some cooking
I am thinking about changing one of the list items to going to some number of festivals. On Monday Domsky called me and told me he was going to Festival 8 and I should go, at first I just laughed, I mean its in Indio CA, I am in Arkansas. Then I realized that pretty much every time I want to see someone now a flight will be involved so why not, I will give Domsky credit, if he hadn't called back Monday after work to try for a second time I might not have switched over. Tuesday morning I went online and bought a plane ticket. I still don't have a ticket to the actual show but I'm sure I will find one of those once we get out to CA . I will have a costume for Halloween, i was informed I would be the only one without a costume at the entire festival. Heather has a camera so I will wait for the pictures when we get back to let you know what I choose. One thing i didn't pick but would have been awesome if i had thought of it before I committed to the one i did choose, is Michael Phelps. just get either a speedo or a warm up suit, dangle a bunch of gold metals around your neck and walk around the Phish festival asking people to smoke pot. too bad, it would have been a good one
I will be back with pictures
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Susan G. Koman Race for the Cure & updates


Above all else I have struggled to become part of the area, so yesterday I volunteered at the Susan G. Koman Race for a Cure. It was something one of the diversity groups at work was doing and I figured if we want them to participate in our YEN



I have also been working on cooking more, my parents were here last weekend and my mom did an unbelievable job outfitting my kitchen, just to name a few things I have now that I didn't before: Crockpot, coffee maker, cheese shredder, large baking pans w/ tops, mixing bowls, dish drying rack, and a ton of spices and all of those other things that I need to season which I never would have thought of on my own. Which brings me to the fact that I am currently making Chili in my crock pot right now. This will be the 1st non hunk of meat and one side meal that I have made on my own
A final note of updates, I am going to join a Racquetball league soon, I have looked a couple up and just need to make a call and get signed up

Sunday, September 13, 2009
Paintballing & #88

Monday, September 7, 2009
AR- 6 Weeks in
The point of me telling you all of this is I am getting back on the list bandwagon. I have not done a good job of assimilating into AR. From what I have been told in the last couple weeks I have started just complaining and no one likes a complainer. I enjoy sarcasm but I apparently am now incapable of simply being sarcastic. When a friend from MA asked me if I had shaved my angry beard that is when I knew what had to be done.
There are a lot of list items that can help me both lose weight and get better acquainted with AR. I still have to run races of 5K, 10K and 1/2 Marathon, although I am willing to substitute 5 and 10 Mi's for the K's if that is how the races present themselves. I also need to take kickboxing & Yoga classes as well as join a racquetball league. That is just the physical aspect of my current problem. I also need to learn how to cook better so I don't end up eating shit all the time like I do now. Hopefully good cooking with help me impress the ladies, if I ever meet an attractive one that isn't married.
Overall this last 6 weeks have been a struggle for me. I am searching for my place down here and not finding many answers. Everyone else down here came in a class or with people they knew, friends and wives or are from here. I came as me, alone, and I don't fit into any of the defined categories at work (Since I only know people from work). I am not supposed to be friends with the reps because I am a manager but I don't have a common theme with the other managers. I am putting on my best face from here out but I won't be surprised if I am not excited about the results (sorry to any Arkansan who doesn't understand where I am commin from)
Here's to keeping my pursuit of living deliciously alive
Thursday, July 30, 2009
#87- Buy a new HDTV
If you are the type who enjoy specs, it is a 55" Samsung /1080p / 120Hz / LCD w/ 100,000:1 dynamic contrast ratio
Next up in the purchase department is the PS3 to go with it, I mean I need to do something for me. Right? (In my head that sentence sounds like Arty Lang was saying it)
Monday, July 27, 2009
1st Impressions
- less than a ¼ mile from: Walmart Supercenter, gas station, liquor store* & a Sonic
- 9 Hole golf course I can play for free (looks to be in decent condition for a free golf course)
- Pool, Hot Tub, Fitness Center(haven’t seen it but I have low expectations), Pool & Pong tables
*both Walmart and Gas station sell beer
Con’s
- I’m in Arkansas
- I’m in Arkansas
- I’m in Arkansas
- Now that I have that out of my system, Charter Can Lick MY BALLS
o They do not offer DVR or HD service in this area but they hope to have it soon (Please read that again)
o Comcast services Little Rock and they have both of those options, but don’t provide service to North Little Rock (Although I have been told for cable purposes I am considered to be in Maumelle, either way I’m fucked)
o This means I am currently looking into television from ATT because for some reason they have both a DVR and HD capabilities right here in where Charter does not
§ My apartment complex doesn’t allow satellites so Direct TV is a no go
-Did I mention I am in Arkansas
Anyway I am Fast Tracking #87 Buy an HDTV because I am currently void of a TV at all and that can not stand. I also need to count some days I could be close to having to pick a new thing at 200 days. Technically I went out in Nashville last night but I can’t count it toward #73 cuz I went to bed at 10. The last time I checked I have yet to get anyone pregnant so #33 is lookin good(Ladies you will inform me if there was an issue, right?) I am up to 2001 in “Now I can Die in Peace” but with the move I have a feeling it will be awhile before I get the chance to finish it.(#52). Enough updating for now
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Live from Nashville
I also just got Sirius, I am annoyed b/c the package I got included the best of XM but Baseball is no where on the dial. That was the whole point. I wanted to hear Joe C. no matter where I was. Anyway I have already figured out satellite radio they have the same format of playing the same songs on the same channels over and over again. But they have the bonus of the comedy, Howard, and other crap that you just can’t get on regular radio so overall still happy with the decision. Now I need to buy a TV. I hope I make a good decision there as well.
I know this post has nothing to do with any of my things but I gotta tell ya, leaving Boston was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. This isn’t the 1st time I had to leave somewhere I loved because it was the right thing to do but it doesn’t get any easier. It rips you up inside and there are so many things I felt were left unsaid between myself and various people. Some of which I am sure would have fell on deaf ears but I have always felt it is better to put it out there and let ppl make their own decision then hold back and wonder. I have no regrets about my time there and hope to return to the North East at some point but right now I think it is time for me to ride the wave and see where life takes me. I don’t know who said it first or best but I never want to regret not doing something, so let the chips fall…..
Monday, July 6, 2009
So I am a slacker, but enjoy another post
1st I went out in NYC a couple of weeks ago for Phinney's b-day and although fun not exactly the most exciting thing to cross off the list. I assume this has to do with the fact that I have been to NYC many times over my life I just never went out in the city so simply getting drunk in a city didn't get me excited enough to write this until a couple weeks after the fact.
I also was recently approved for a mortgage which brings me one step closer to owning property (#28). I also just spent today looking at houses in and around Little Rock. If you don't know me let me fill you in as to why i would ever make a decision to move to Little Rock AR from Boston because believe me if you had told me 2 years ago I would do this I would have told you that you were crazy. There is a long story and a short one, I don't feel it is prudent for me to go into the Gorey detail of how i got here but basically I was giving a choice move to AR or get WFR'd. I wasn't going to move to do the same job that I had been doing so i let my management team i was willing to move for the right opportunity and after many months I got promotion so I am moving down to LR (apparently that is how the cool kids down here write it)
Finally I started reading "Now I can Die in Peace" by Bill Simmons. I didn't realize that this book was just a collection of articles that he had wrote that he then went back and commented on but so far I am enjoyin it
Holbrook if you are gonna read this you can at least comment on it (Jerk)
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
2 Phish Shows and Michael Domsky





Tuesday, June 9, 2009
blink - The Power of Thinking without Thinking

So what blink really boils down to is our own judgment. How can we know when to trust our gut and when do we need to gather more information. What I found most interesting was that Gladwell actually argues that more often than not we try and use too much information to make our decisions. He uses a series of stories that if not for the common theme of snap second decisions are otherwise unrelated.
The book opens with a story about a historical statue that supposedly dated back to 6,000 BC. The museum in question spent years trying to verify its authenticity, brought in all kinds of experts to run numbers and statistics to prove it was real. Then they brought in 2 statue experts and based on seeing the statue for a split second they knew it was a fake.
If I was to see this statue I probably wouldn’t know any better then all of the other experts’ whose numbers were wrong. The main issue is that these types of decisions are made by people with a very extensive knowledge of the subject matter they are being asked about. For example one man who spent years working with couples could tell based on a 5 minute conversation if that couple will stay together with 90% accuracy.
One of the most interesting chapters was about being able to read emotions on people’s faces. Not just being able to understand how someone feels without them ever speaking, but that everyone’s real emotions are worn on their face, if only for a split second, weather or not they know it. As I have a left a few open items on my list I might use one of them to learn how to read faces.
Being able to train ourselves to trust our instincts knowing that more times then not they will be correct is a big leap. There are many different examples of snap judgments, right and wrong, illustrating how our mind can know something before we are even cognitively aware of it in this book. As this isn’t a topic I have ever thought about before I hope I am able to continue to develop my judgment abilities as they could be very valuable over the course of my life and career.
I wasn’t sure how to record the books that I read in this blog so I decided to go with this kind of format, as I just finished this book, I immediately came in and got some thoughts down. In the interest of full disclosure I started to write this blog before I read the afterword. In retrospect that was a mistake as I changed quite a bit of this blog after finishing the book. I could probably have used more of the examples from the book but I didn’t want to ruin it for anyone who is interested in it.
In the end I would highly recommend either of the Gladwell books talked about here. At some point I will get to Outliers then I can let you about that as well.
PS. Once I gather the pic’s I need to blog about Phish & Michael Domsky, crossing things off left and right
Saturday, June 6, 2009
MICHAEL DOMSKY IS HERE!!!
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Getting Back into Golf + notes

I finally went out the Saturday before my sisters wedding with my uncle Peter Belanger, my grandfather Peter Belanger, and my grandfather’s nephew (whatever that makes him to me) Peter Belanger (my 3 partners) my brother, my dad, my dad’s cousin Denis, and my now bother in law (still weird to say that). In the end shot a 101 on the day. 57 on the front 9 and 44 on the back. So you might say that I needed to shake the rust off, as that was my 1st time playing since last yr for father’s day. Also probably my 1st time keeping a legitimate score in at least a decade (also weird to be able to say that).
Overall I am pretty happy with the performance. It may cause me to have to change one of my list items though. Since I shot a 101 on my 1st legitimate time in a decade I am going to drop number 46. Play a round of golf under 100 to 85. I picked 85 because I figured that my baseline, which I will use as the back nine, since I was properly warmed up, times 2 is 88. So I would like to improve on that since I think it is unlikely I will start throwing up compete rounds of 44 on a regular basis but with some more practice we will see
So some other random things to make note of:
38. Try 5 different types of Sushi- I have tried a California Roll, a Spicy Roll, and a Tuna Roll – Overall I am warming up to Sushi, and hopefully fish in general, we will see
55. Learn How to make 2 appetizers really well- I will declare my Taco dip ready to be consider “really well”. I should have worded this one better but what are you gonna do. But for all future events if you want a Taco dip, I am your man
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Cleaning up Simarano Dr.- 2/101



Kind of gives you a new perspective on throwing shit out your window
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Bruins Vs Canes, Game 1, Eastern Conference Semifinals 2009
So yesterday, the day of the game, I finally get around to picking up some Bruin’s gear. I ended up picking up a hat and a Chara t-shirt jersey, I was between Big Z and Lucic, Just made a game time decision. Almost bought an old school style Neely t-shirt jersey b/c there were signs all over Olympia that said buy one get one ½ off but apparently that was only for red tagged items, which I didn’t see any. Since the shirts were $20 I felt it was a good time to use the economies of scale in my favor. As it turns out I could have gotten the same shirt for $12 from a guy set up in North Station.
On an amusing guy on the street side note after the game one of the guys selling shirts on the street and when he was moving his cart a random guy grabbed one of the shirts that was on display. It took a minute for the vendor to realize it and he grabbed some other guy thinking he had stolen it. But the guy who did steal it was stupid enough to just leave 60% of the shirt hanging out of his back pocket. Before to long this lead to the vendor strait up tackling him and getting his shirt back. James of course had his camera ready
The game was fun, people enjoyed the stach. I didn’t get put on the Jumbotron, prob b/c I wasn’t drunk enough to dance around till later in the game, I did meet a camera guy close to the end of the game and he tried to get me up there but no luck. Bruin’s won 4-1, Holbook has an RI license and won’t be 25 until July so he couldn’t buy beer at the garden so me and James had to go get beers constantly. One of these trips lead to me missing the 3rd Bruins goal.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Friday, April 24, 2009
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Some Post Marathon Monday Thoughts
So I guess the reason I was thinking about this is because I had some day after thoughts from the marathon and I thought I should write them on here. I mean the reason I decided to do a blog was to make it real, make me accountable in a sense, and to have a record of my 1001 days, and if I am going to do that I might as well start from the beginning.
If nothing else running the marathon reaffirmed my belief that I can do anything I put my mind to. I don’t think I have challenged myself to something that took that kind of dedication since wrestling in high school. It was nice to see that I was still up to the task. Through the years I have always assumed that the most important week of doing anything is the first week. My first Friday I was supposed to run a mile but we were going to the Burins game for Pats birthday so I didn’t have much time to get in the run but I went out and got it done. As little or insignificant as that seems for me, that is the most important thing. If you are going to do something you need to drive right in, as it says on the dry erase above my toilet “Go Big or Go Home”. That is what I did with the marathon and what I am attempting to do with this post.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Cross off Boston Marathon
Since I didn't have my name or something identifying on me I didn't get many shout outs from random people until the final stretch down Beacon where I prob got a dozen Forrest Gump references easy. At that point i it was nice to be picked out, the crowd is a big, when you have been running for 24 miles and you have people cheering for you the whole way even if they don’t know you it is a great feeling and it surprisingly not as difficult to finish as I thought. I think I did a good job of pacing myself and it paid dividends in the end.
When I made he list I guess I figured that on my way to running a marathon I would run a 5K, 10K, and half marathon but it didn’t happen so I guess I will have to continue to run until I have crossed them all off, although after this none of those seem daunting.
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Breaking News!!!!
Finally a follow up post and some things to cross off
This brings me to my 2nd list item being crossed off. Finish My baggo boards. I had started building these during the 2007 Patriots season because I had gone to 4 of the home games and brought the boards to 3 of them, but back then they were just a board and a milk crate and some homemade bags. Last 4th of July I went to Holbrook’s place in RI and we built a frame for them so they would stand on there own. I got to 3 Pats games last year but only brought the boards to 1 but they were a big hit.
Friday, January 16, 2009
Day 1 (Well 2)
So i got a late start, I choose to start this on my birthday which was yesterday but I went skiing and when I got home I had no energy left to start creating my first blog/ posting my 101 things to do list. I received the idea from Becca, one of my current roommates and Pat's girlfriend. Anyway i figured it would be a good way to give my self some direction over the next few years so I wrote up a list then took some time to actually start it, i changed a few items and played with it before I was ready to post and my birthday seemed like the best time to start. You will notice that my list is actually only 91 items long. There are 10 more that for a variety of reasons I have chosen not to publish online but i will keep a tracker of the 10 so you at least see if they are being accomplished.
So with no further delay, the List:
- Run a 5K
- Run 10K Race
- Run ½ Marathon
- Run Boston Marathon
- Go to Las Vegas
- Learn how to give a massage
- Go out in NYC
- Hangout w/ Michael Domsky
- See Baseball games at 3 stadiums you have never been before
- See Football games at 2 stadiums you have never been before
- Go to a Celtic’s Game
- Go to a New England Revolution Game
- Go to a Boston Blazers game
- Get some Bruins gear and wear it to a Bruins Game
- Do a 360 on skis off a jump
- Do a 720 on skis off a jump
- Learn how to do rails on skis
- Go off a jump backwards
- Ski Whistler
- Ski Mad River Glen
- Go skiing in a State I haven’t been before
- Do 3 Mt. Dew races at 3 different locations
- Learn to Snowboard
- Learn how to create a web site
- Go to a Playoff game at Fenway Park
- Take GMATS
- Start on my Masters
- Buy some real estate
- Go to San Diego
- Bungee Jump/Sky Dive
- Be making more money on day 1001 than Day 1
- Read a weekly tech update for 1 year consecutively
- Don’t get anyone pregnant
- Stay Disease Free
- Go wake boarding
- Ride a jet ski
- Go surfing
- Try 5 types of sushi
- Eat a lobster from NE
- Try 3 types of fish
- Take some kind of kickboxing/boxing aerobic class
- Take a yoga class
- Strengthen my shoulder so I can throw w/o pain
- Bench 225 10 times
- Play in a Racquetball league
- Play a round of golf under 100
- Play a round of golf where I hit all 18 fairways on the drive
- Play a round of golf with less than 27 putts
- Build a piece of furniture from scratch
- Finish Baggo boards
- Finish Blink
- Read Now I can Die in Peace, by Bill Simmons
- Read Outliers, by Malcom Gladwell
- Learn how to make 3 different dinners from scratch
- Find 2 appetizers and make them really well
- Learn how to make 3 different desserts
- Learn how to make 4 types of punch that can be made w/ & w/o alcohol
- Carry a token for 1 year then give it away
- Collect a complete set of the 50 state quarters
- Cook 50 things out of the how to cook everything book
- Learn to type correctly
- Carve something to hang on the wall
- Go deep sea fishing
- Fire a gun
- Do 100 push ups w/o a break
- Learn to dance
- Cook someone breakfast in bed
- Take someone on a picnic
- Cook a candle lit dinner for someone
- Go to 3 concerts
- Host a Beer Die tournament
- Go for a weekend hiking trip
- Go out in 5 Cities I have never been to(Excluding NYC, Vegas & San Diego)
- Build a Foosball table
- refinish my coffee table
- Go for a road trip that comprises of at least 5 states
- Go white water rafting
- go ATVing in the woods
- Pay off my student loans
- Learn how to change my own oil and use that knowledge
- Go paintballing
- Do a Bar-a-Thon
- Learn how to make 10 actual drinks
- Do 101 hours of volunteering
- Get a Tattoo
- Learn a new hand skill
- Buy a new HDTV
- Come up with a new thing on Day 200
- Come up with a new thing on Day 400
- Come up with a new thing on Day 600
- Come up with a new thing on Day 800
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